All members now have the ability to chat with other members in a private chat . To find the member you'd like to message simply click on "new message" and the members list will be brought up for you to view & choose whom you'd like to message.
As well, if you have a phone number included in your account profile info (not viewable to the public) , you will also receive a SMS text msg to notify you of an inbox msg from another site member.
Pls let me know if you have any trouble with this.